1 /5 Aman K: I want to share a horrifying experience my wife and I had at Sutter Roseville ER during her first trimester.
She started bleeding in the evening without any symptoms, and we decided to go to the ER. Upon arrival, her pain level reached at around 7. The doctor did an initial ultrasound but couldnt find anything in the uterus, so he ordered a detailed ultrasound and bloodwork, prescribing Tylenol for pain. After the bloodwork, we were sent back to the waiting area.
This is when things took a drastic turn for the worse. For over two hours, my wife’s pain escalated to 10+, yet no one helped. Despite multiple pleas, the RN receptionists refused to give Tylenol, saying it would be administered only after the ultrasound. She was crying in pain, and I kept on begging for relief, yet I was repeatedly told to just "wait." When I even considered leaving to buy Tylenol myself, I didn’t have the heart to leave her alone. Seeing her pain, I even asked RN Receptionist that should I call 911 for help and was advised that doing so would put her back in the line.
As her pain became unbearable, she passed out near the restroom. Only then did an RN finally get a wheelchair—but still, no immediate help was provided. All this time we were waiting for the ultrasound and when an ultrasound technician came out to call the next patient, I requested her to take my wife. However, she wasn’t aware of the urgency, and she simply followed the queue, unaware that a patient had just passed out in the lobby.
Then, God bless the soul of doctor who had initially seen my wife stepped out into the lobby to call another patient. In just one glance, he knew something was terribly wrong and acted immediately. Within minutes, she was rushed inside, where they found her vitals were dangerously low. She was given emergency medication for pain and blood pressure, and we learned she was having a miscarriage.
This should NEVER happen in an ER.
We left with one haunting question: What if the doctor hadn’t come outside at that moment?
This experience raises serious concerns:
1. Lack of communication – Despite my desperate pleas, the RN receptionists never engaged or reassessed my wife’s worsening condition.
2. Lack of compassion & urgency – A patient passed out in the lobby, yet no one checked on her.
3. Triage failure – Despite my 100+ requests for help, no prioritization was done.
4. Coordination failure – Not once did the RNs consult the doctor who had seen my wife. I mean if there are 40-50 patients in the ER Lobby and only one of them is crying/passing out due to pain should be given immediate relief. A single glance from the Doctor was enough to take immediate action—so why didn’t they?
This isn’t just a review; it’s a plea for change. Patients come to the ER in their worst moments, trusting the system to take care of them. That trust was completely broken for us. I pray no one else has to go through this nightmare.