Marva Ericson I know it’s true and wonderful! I have been a member my entire life life and The people I’ve met over the years are the best friends!
5 /5
Sandra Thomas Started going to this church for about 2 years now and i absolutely love it. Since day 1 everyone has been open arms and the encouragement to move forward with our lord is the best support system that Ive ever had. Thank you!
5 /5
P Hilton My experiences were mostly positive here until a certain point in time. I loved serving and going to church here and served diligently. The members were not very nice in general, but I did my part and was nice, which is what mattered.
Things really went downward for me after the stake president would not let me close the door for the temple recommend meeting. I could hear a basketball bouncing and hitting the rim over and over again, so it sounded like someone else was in the building playing or practicing basketball. I could hear that very well, and always in the past the door had been closed for meetings with bishopric or stake presidents.
That would have been fine (to leave the door open) if he had just asked me the regular questions and not then pursued personal questions after he asked the required ones.
He wanted to fix me up with his son, who lived in Utah. I told him that I wasnt interested. He asked me if I liked any of the guys in the singles ward I was attending, and I said that one had asked me out and I had said no and another one I found kind of interesting. The second one I had very briefly mentioned was in the building playing basketball and overheard that part of the conversation, it turned out, while he was in hallway to get a drink of water.
He then told people in the ward that I made an appointment with the stake president to talk about him and the other young man I had mentioned, in response to the stake presidents question, completely taking my answer out of context. Though I answered the stake presidents question mentioning those two guys, I hadnt wanted to actually do anything with either of them. I just thought they were cool. I never started a conversation with either of them.
Ward activities after that were not at all the same for me as they had been before. I had blended in and had fun at the activities, those guys and others being nice to me at them. But then after that open-door meeting people, especially the other women and two bishopric members, at the activities that we were required to attend, were overtly rude, ostracized me, and put me down.
The reason I state that we were required to attend is because the bishopric had advised us all at church that we should be attending the activities of the church, that it was part of being a good church member.
We were told at church to attend the activities, which is why I had started attending them in the first place.
I was respectful in my answers to the stake president. I did not put anyone down. I never pursued any men. I behaved appropriately and honorably.
But, the rumor mill in that ward, and just how the people (men and women) were, caused me to be treated like a harlot and an exile after that, even though I was a virgin and am still a virgin and do not ask men out or even start conversations with them.
Being in the ward turned into a hellish experience. At least the other men in the ward helped me move. The ones I didnt mention to Mr. Stake President. Among then was another guy who had asked me out to whom I had said no.
I WAS seen as a hot commodity in that ward, and I believe it made the women of the ward jealous, so they turned the men of the ward against me. I believe also that they were all jealous that I had a good job. Or they just wanted to humiliate me by making up lies, spreading them, and mistreating me, because they COULD. They got away with it.
One of the guys who helped me move offered to drive all the way to Utah with me, to which I said no only because the girl who was sitting there with us when he offered that looked at me in horror right after he said that. I knew she liked him. She had made him a cake for his birthday and invited him to her house when he first moved to the ward.
She ended up marrying him. They are a good match, even though it seems from the timing of things that they may have done things out of order in terms of sex and marriage. That was a guy I had not mentioned to the stake president, but there may have been a mutual attraction. I dont know.
4 /5